Early childhood is the foundation of the life stage, and parents were the first teacher, in the process of growing up children play a leading role. The present society growing competition, how to make your own children don't lose at the starting line, in the fierce competition in the society in an invincible position to succeed, it is now in the education of the parents of the children brought forward a new level of requirements; All say children is a white paper, hereafter have what kind of as, that is about to see parents and society how to go to the site.
A and family harmony and mutual respect and love each other, give the child to build a good growing environment
The so-called "lies near the ink ink", that is the environment effects on people. Indeed, different environment, which will have different growth course, will bring up different character. Remember in children at a very young age, we couple because more young, often for some petty small things be difficult with sb. After many observation, I found that every time I and love to fight, the child is not blink small eyes look fear, is scared to wail aloud to weep aloud, and her lively and cheerful personality also slowly become silent melancholy. This can be how to do? The child is our love crystallization, is our family of hope, always can't let this flower bud of love wither in our argument meaningless? Aware of the importance of the problem later, we began to husband and wife to control their emotions, as far as possible before the child is not in dispute. Harmonious family, children's emotional stability, also restored the lively and cheerful personality. WWW.kao8.cC
In addition to give children build good growth environment, study atmosphere, I also actively and children make friends, to eliminate the "generation gap" between us: give her the right to speak, and let her feel is an important part of the family. Such not only to grasp the child of the ideological trend, also train her optimism confident good character, for her future growth and learning should strengthen the psychological basis.
Second, as parents, should let the child form good habits
Mr. ChenHeQin educators in China said: "the human action nine times out of ten is habit, most of the habit is formed in youth, ought to be in infancy pay special attention to habits, used to keep good, lifetime habit; a well, the life is affected by the tired." Diligent is the children must be formed in the childhood a good habit, and to abide by time, polite, respect for their parents, their elders, the teaching time also have to physically, an imperceptible lets the child learn. Believe that since the childhood love labor, academic thinking, concern and compassion of other people's children, in the future will be a happy man. Especially nurturance child of reading and the habit of labor, the child's many faults can use reading and labor to help them correct. In a book knowledge and truth can let them get good guidance and labor can let him feel all the hard-won. Develop a good life and learning habit, do what you could do. On the cultivation of good habits, parents must be firm, perseverance, such ability for children learning and growth of the future lay a solid foundation.Three, to exercise the child's courage, make them more independent, self-confident
Children want on learning, success in life, we must cultivate brave spirit, the spirit of the child will act confident. And the children of the exercise courage, actually is often the test of to parents. Sometimes parents only to children's safety and worry, sacrifice the child the opportunity to exercise myself, to actually such children disadvantage. Parents are more in order to protect his feelings do not receive one thousand the possibility of danger of injury, fear that they can't with which generates the heavy blow, so in order to insurance and double protection, make children develop lack courage not confident weakness. The child is sometimes the parents always like kite flying off using a leash them, and too fine showing off their parents that care about, so in other children they will feel very before no ability, when they see other children safely his playing, and their parents are always with will be very tired, think that the parents much, sometimes even will produce the rebellious attitude. So parents should dare to let go, and bold to encourage children to do what they can do, do a brave child. At the same time also can develop the child's independence, strong will and the good life habit.
Four, pay attention to the image, set an example, give kids a vivid example
"Embedded" in have so 1: "than untaught. Teach lax, the division of sacrifices." And since we parents of children, it is the first teacher of their children, therefore, we do the parents to the child the influence is how huge. I used to have a neighbor, the couple are called yokel, not only for and the book, also export into every day "dirty" dirty words, the results of their daughter also in imperceptible in infected with a lot of bad habits, not only do not love learning, and still often speak insolently, became disgusting bad children. Therefore, we do the parents of children really very big effect. So we usually have to pay attention to their words, give kids a vivid example, let our advantages in the child to reflect and carry forward.
Five, persuasive voice and improve the occasion, develop the child's interest in learning
Education experts point out that, the interest is the first motive force in success. Put this perspective to study, that is to say, only for learning has strong interest, would go to the initiative into the study, just can achieve good results. In the daughter is small, I found she was very interested in reading a book, so I deliberately guide her, inspired her reading enthusiasm. I in addition to keep to her for her useful books provide outside, also often speak about celebrity virtuosi small story, it raised her interest also inspired her desire to learn. And so, in my guidance, the child's interest in learning very thick, what to learn is fast, get the kindergarten teacher's consistent high praise.
The above these are usually education experience every bit of young children's education is a complicated system engineering, every child is hopeful chaoyang, every child is the future of the pillars of the society. I believe that as long as we do parents can notice method, teach students in accordance with their aptitude, children can always succeed, to glory.
The child is our sun of tomorrow, is the future of our motherland successor; Let us work together, lonely heart the sun of tomorrow; Hold the beams of the motherland tomorrow.